Thursday, August 12, 2010

I Love the Temple!


I absolutely love the temple! Where else on earth can you go to feel peace and quiet and the Spirit in such great abundance? Where else can you go where you always come out happier and more calm than when you went in...a place that is a real training ground for eternity? Where else can you enter into with big tears in your eyes from the trials and adversities that the world presses down on you and then come out with big tears in your eyes from feeling the love of the Savior and his atoning sacrifice that has cleansed your soul? Yes, your home and your private quiet places can provide those same feelings as you talk with your Heavenly Father in prayer, but the temple radiates the love of the Savior through every door and down every hallway. This is His House on earth!!
I can’t tell you how much a part of me the temple is. I was born in the covenant...I don’t remember that, but I love my parents for keeping themselves worthy to be sealed in the temple, thus ensuring those eternal blessings that a covenant child receives (if I live worthily). I received my endowment in the Ogden temple surrounded by loved ones, with my Grandma and Grandpa Bassett as the officiators. I was married and sealed in the Salt Lake temple 35 years ago this year to the love of my life...and beyond...giving us the added rights and privileges reserved for those who enter into the new and everlasting covenant of marriage. We now see those blessings bestowed upon others on a weekly basis as we lovingly serve others in our capacity as coordinators in the Houston temple.
I know that I wanted to be a temple worker for a long time. It’s a part of me...my parents were temple workers, my Grandma Remington was a temple worker, my Grandma and Grandpa Bassett were temple workers, and my great-Grandma Hanks was a temple worker. As I think of it, I am a fourth generation temple worker in my family. Our children, Jannene and Lorie have followed behind...adding a fifth generation of temple service. I saw, heard and felt of their love as they would come home from the temple. Was my inner desire to serve in the temple hereditary, or just a spiritual desire, increased from years and years of watching dedicated temple service family members? Do I really know how different my life would have been without the temple in it?
I feel kind of like the “life-timer” member vs. the convert. With generations of a love of the temple in our family, I sometimes don’t see and feel the vast difference my life could have been without the temple as part of it. I only feel the continual joy, peace and happiness as my life unfolds. But what of the miracles and blessings that occur in the lives of the “converts” to temple service?
I have two friends who have shared their joy with me just recently as they have begun their temple worker service, and the miracles that have occurred in their lives as a direct result. One friend has had a challenging life, to say the least, with a less-than-responsive husband, troubles with children, troubles with parents and heavy work and church responsibilities. In May, she began her temple service as an ordinance worker. She related that her youngest daughter LOVES that she is working in the temple and calls her every Tuesday evening after she arrives home to hear her stories of her “day in the temple”. Even her daughter’s boyfriend says he feels the impact that her temple service has had on him, and he’s not even a member of the family!
The other couple has struggled with their youngest daughter. Even though their church service has been very dedicated and even though they have put all their efforts into their family and their children, this last daughter has really been a difficult one. She has been into drugs, ear piercings, home school (to get her out of the failing school environment), and in and out of the church. Her parents have hung in there with her, but it has not been without much pain and sorrow.
This past January, their daughter started turning around. They had moved to a different location in Houston, and the daughter has really related to the bishop of their new ward...becoming best friends. She has gone through LDS counseling, has slowly repented of her wayward life, has removed all of her piercings, and has come back into full activity. She even influenced a fellow non-member “stray” to have a desire to learn of the church because of her example, and he was just baptized this past month. It was a complete turn-around in the spiritual life of this young woman...and it began when her parents started working Friday nights in the Houston Temple!!
Life is a real learning experience, and is challenging at best. Lately, I have seen Satan’s groping tentacles reaching out trying to destroy many families and individuals. I am SO grateful for the safe haven of the temple and the covenants made therein!

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Here's to you Mom...and Christmas!!


This past Christmas we had all four of our children home for the holidays, including all of their spouses and five of the most precious grandchildren you ever saw.
I want to testify that children bring out the magic in Christmas. Having all our children and grandchildren in our home was a priceless time that reminded me so much of the reunions we had at Christmas time in Houston with Mom and Dad. Yes, we even had family spread out to my house when there wasn't enough room in "the inn". To see the sheer joy and excitement in the eyes of our little grandchildren, as well as to share in the joy of their parents on Christmas morning and every day before and after was a priceless memory for me that cannot be contained. To see our little Alex "Mary" with little Kyle "Joseph" tucking little baby Cordelia "Jesus" in a manger that Bekah had made, and to see our sweet Bekah "Angel" spread her arms in praises to our God using her Tinker Bell princess wand with little Jack and his daddy Richie in awe as the shepherds brought back a flood of memories of years gone by.
Having shared that, there is much to be said about living like and learning from my Mom. Mom was kind of used to having my kids around in Houston, and so her reunions were a little bit different than my circumstances, but I have to admire Mom and Dad for making those reunions wonderful!! I'm sure it wasn't easy having everyone descend on your home like they did, and they had 7 children with families to my four children. I must say, this Christmas helped me to understand a little better what Mom and Dad accomplished to bring about joyful memories...the cooked meals, the planned activities, the songs and games and decorations and gifts, the talking and sharing, the caroling to neighbors and friends, the field trips and loving shared. All took thought and planning and lots of prayers, which Dad, and particularly Mom did so well. My time is just beginning, and I am looking forward to it with open arms and open hugs...I only hope my time will measure up in some part to the time Mom and Dad spent in loving our family.
Here's to you, Mom!!!